December 4, 2011

31 weeks pregnant!

So I've missed quite a few weeks of journaling this pregnancy! We've been busy getting ready for this baby's arrival though! Crib is here, shelving has been bought, dresser has been purchased and we're ready to paint her room. That being said, the crib isn't assembled, the dresser hasn't arrived, and the shelves are still in a box, and the paint is still in the can and not on the walls.

But we're getting there!

How Far Along: 31 weeks (63 more days to go!)

What "They" Say About Our Baby's Development: This week, your baby measures over 16 inches long. She weighs about 3.3 pounds (try carrying four navel oranges) and is heading into a growth spurt. She can turn her head from side to side, and her arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath her skin. She's probably moving a lot, too, so you may have trouble sleeping because your baby's kicks and somersaults keep you up. Take comfort: All this moving is a sign that your baby is active and healthy.

Mama: Have you noticed the muscles in your uterus tightening now and then? Many women feel these random contractions — called Braxton Hicks contractions — in the second half of pregnancy. Often lasting about 30 seconds, they're irregular, and at this point, they should be infrequent and painless. Frequent contractions, on the other hand — even those that don't hurt — may be a sign of preterm labor. Call your practitioner immediately if you have more than four contractions in an hour or any other signs of preterm labor.




Weekly Food Comparison: 4 Naval Oranges

The Good: She is a very active little girl. I think she's still laying transverse (as of the last ultrasound two weeks ago she was) because most of her kicks and movements are felt in my side rather than in the center of my stomach.

The Bad: Heartburn
! Just like this same time with Santi...I pop a heartburn med at least once a day...
The Weird: Nothing much.

Currently Craving/Avoiding:

Avoiding: Veggies...I just have no desire to eat them but I make myself do it sometimes!
Craving: Sugar...anything sugary!

Doctor Updates:
Next appointment on December 16th.


Total weight gain/loss: 12 lbs.

Maternity clothes?
Yes, all bottoms. I can still wear some non-maternity tops.


Stretch marks?
0 so far.


Sleep:
I wake up at least once a night to go to the bathroom. Sometimes I'll wake up at about 3am and can't get back to sleep.


Movement: She mostly moves after I eat something or am sitting down to rest which is a lot more lately!

Labor Signs: None

Belly Button in or out?
Popped out! It was so messed up after having Santi that I would have been surprised if it didn't pop out!


What I miss:
Being able to put socks on alone...I wear flats without shoes most of the time or am barefoot in the house because putting on socks is really hard.


What I am looking forward to:
Getting the room done!

November 1, 2011

Thankful...

So I'm going to participate in the thankful challenge and manage to mention at least one thing I'm thankful for every day. Today I choose my kid(s). Seems appropriate to start there. I'm thankful that when we went to the OB's office today we heard a nice, strong, healthy heartbeat from baby girl. And that even though Santi was EXHAUSTING today, being the little toddler boy that he is, as I was chasing him around the waiting room, or entertaining him with books and snacks, or feeding him his lunch, he makes me smile on a daily, if not hourly basis.

And then I was on Pinterest, which brings me to another thankful - I'm thankful for a good cry. Chalk it up to hormones, but sometimes a good cry just makes everything better, even if you don't think you have anything to cry about. It's refreshing to "wash" away pent up feelings and aggressions. And the source of my crying? This quote in this pin:

"You are the poem I dreamed of writing, the masterpiece I longed to paint. You are the shining star I reached for in my ever hopeful quest for life fulfilled. You are my child. Now with all things I am blessed."

I've been feeling a loss of sense of self recently. I'm not 100% into the mommy scene, and don't want to be out of the working world. I'm home with my child (and soon to be children) because #1 we can afford it, and #2 with two kids it's going to save us some money. I do enjoy it but I know I won't like it forever. I can't be one of those constant stay at home moms. I feel flack sometimes from the SAHM's I know as to why I don't want to be home forever, and I feel flack sometimes from my working mom friends as to me being home is the reason I have an organized house, get a lot of projects tackled, etc. When in all actuality, that's my personality. If I were working full time and spending time with Santi and Tito, I'd still get those things done  because having an organized home is important to me. I'm somewhat OCD so I think that has something to do with it too. :)

I need to get back to work, but lately I've been thinking a lot about how I won't be doing that for at least the next year since the plan is to be home with the baby until she's a year old because daycare is so stinkin' expensive for kids under one. It's been a bit discouraging because I miss so many aspects about it. But I know why I do it. Because I will cherish the memories with my kids at this age. They will never remember it, I realize, except when they see photos. But I'll look back and I know I'll be happy that I did it.

So, I might have some dreams that I've had to put on hold, some wishes I might have to put aside. But ultimately, for me, it's worth it, even after really hard days where I'm so tired I can barely stay awake past 8pm to spend time with Tito. Because I got to play chase with Santi, or tickle the grumpiness out of him. Or when the baby arrives, I got to rock her to sleep. And truthfully I have so much life left to live, that I'm glad I get to spend time with my baby now. Jobs will come and go but I'll never get these few moments back with my kiddos.

October 14, 2011

24 weeks pregnant

How Far Along: 24 weeks (112 more days to go!)


What "They" Say About Our Baby's Development: Your baby's growing steadily, having gained about 4 ounces since last week. That puts her at just over a pound. Since she's almost a foot long, she cuts a pretty lean figure at this point, but her body is filling out proportionally and she'll soon start to plump up. Her brain is also growing quickly now, and her taste buds are continuing to develop. Her lungs are developing "branches" of the respiratory "tree" as well as cells that produce surfactant, a substance that will help her air sacs inflate once she hits the outside world. Her skin is still thin and translucent, but that will start to change soon.



Weekly Food Comparison: An ear of corn
The Good: Very strong kicks from our little girl. She's in there having a dance party - usually she starts right when I lay down to go to bed. Let's hope that she doesn't continue this when she's on the outside and is sleeping at night and dancing during the day!

The Bad:
Braxton Hicks contractions - yesterday I was actually cramping a little bit after an active few days and I was told to put my feet up, drink water, and stop lifting heavy things (over 20lbs.) which, unfortunately means Santi (can I just take a moment to say that my BABY boy is now 30 lbs!) I can lift him in and out of his crib, highchair etc if I need to (when I'm home alone with him) but I can't carry him around. So he's doing a lot more walking down the stairs, etc. and he actually likes it!
The Weird: Nothing odd this week

Currently Craving/Avoiding:

Avoiding: Not much
Craving: Sugar, sugar and more sugar!

Doctor Updates:
I have an appointment on Tuesday. We'll be talking about c-section dates, and we'll be talking about my gestational diabetes test which I should have soon. Ugh, I'm not looking forward to drinking that super sweet drink, although since I'm craving sweets this time maybe it'll be more bearable?


The Weekly Belly Bump: Here's the 24 week belly! 






I feel like I'm carrying so differently than I did with Santi. I'm just gaining weight (I've gained 5lbs so far this pregnancy!) in my belly. Maternity pants, aside from one pair are all falling off of me. My maternity shirts I'm wearing are majorly size XS and S. While this is nice, it's making it hard to get dressed since I have so few options.

I'm also feeling a bit of nesting. I went through my closet this morning and pulled out things that I hadn't worn in forever and knew I wouldn't wear even after the baby is here and I'm back in normal clothes again. We're shopping this weekend for paint for the baby's room (pink!), and furniture next month. I've managed to get some clothes for her and am starting to put things away. Just a few more months and this little girl will be joining us and turning our world upside down!

September 20, 2011

And...

So today we went in for our gender ultrasound. I'm just about 20 weeks along, so I knew we'd be able to get a good look as long as the baby cooperated. For a bit I wasn't sure as the baby was moving quite a bit. But after awhile, the baby settled down, and the ultrasound tech was able to get the measurements she needed and then swooped underneath and was able to see that we are having....A GIRL!

I looked right at Tito and said "I told you!" I've felt it was a girl since the beginning of this pregnancy. Just so many things were so different than my pregnancy with Santi. Craving sweets now while when I was pregnant with Santi I couldn't stand the sight of them, being so sick the first trimester, how I'm carrying, that I'm not even in maternity clothes yet (with Santi I was in them at 11 weeks!) etc., etc., etc.

So now we're both excited, and looking at all things pink! Here's a couple of photos from today:



That baby profile looks so much like Santi! So cute! At one point she was in there sucking her thumb which was something we never saw Santi do (and consequently Santi never used a pacifier outside of the hospital NICU.) The bottom one is her right foot - she was stamping on my uterus, which she does quite frequently!

So she'll be here in February, and we're glad to add a girl to our little family, but also to our extended families. In my family, on my mom's side, out of 11 cousins, there are only four girls. And when I was growing up, I was the only girl until I was 10, and then the next girl didn't come until I was 20, and then my cousin had a girl. But all the rest are boys. And on my dad's side, there are only myself and one other girl, with the other 6 cousins who are boys. And with Tito, he's one of three boys, has one cousin on his dad's side who is a girl and one cousin on his mom's side who is a girl. So the families are in need of some pink!

September 16, 2011

To Cloth Diaper or not to Cloth Diaper?

So baby #2 will be joining us in just about 4 months. I'm going back and forth on cloth diapering. We didn't do cloth with Santi because basically we were first time parents and it was intimidating. Disposable just seemed so much easier. It was what was "popular" and seemed to be what I knew. When I thought of cloth diapering, I thought of messy (especially with those little newborn messy poops), I thought of old school diaper pins and diaper covers. I thought it would be hard.

And then I saw some of the "new" cloth diapers. The pre-folds, the all in ones. The snaps which adjust to growing babies. It seemed easier. But by the time I discovered them, I'd also discovered the price. And despite the overall savings, selling diapers at $15 each to my husband when I just had stopped working, wasn't possible. For some reason, he convinced me that disposable diapers would be easier and somehow cost less in the long run. I think he was mostly afraid of the mess and having to wash them in the washer. What he didn't realize was that I was the one who was going to be doing that laundry since I'm home all day with the kids.

And then I discovered this link, to Hugga Buns on Maine Cloth Diaper. I actually own one Hugga Buns diaper and used it on Santi once when he was napping and it was a colossal fail as he peed through the whole thing. But I loved the idea of the diaper and they were cheaper than the FuzziBuns and other diapers I'd seen out there at about $10 a pop. Well on this site, they are currently listed for $5.50 each!  So I'm toying with the idea of getting some. Someone told me that you should really have about 20 diapers to start with and then add more over time. It's a little investment (if I got them at the sale price it'd be about  $110 but that's a lot better than the $300 I'd be spending on FuzziBuns or the other $15 each diapers.) But I'm still wavering.

So I made a list of pros and cons for cloth vs. disposable:

Cloth Cons:
1. Cost - Initial cost up front, but over time they pay for themselves.
2. Mess - Having to clean up something that I can't just throw away is a little icky, especially the early, breastfed baby poops
3. Skin reaction? - I've read some blogs and articles where some kids have interactions with the fabrics and it gives them rashes and other issues so they have to go to disposables anyway.
4. Will they really work? If not, am I stuck with a bunch of diapers I can't use and have to resell somewhere?
5. More laundry?

Cloth Pros:
1. Good for the environment - not having diapers in a landfill is a nice feeling
2. Cost less in the long run - enough said
3. Cute - yes, I'm a sucker for the colors!
4. Ease of use with the new diapers - just as easy as disposable, aside from having an extra "part" (the insert) to wash
5. No need for a Diaper Genie (i.e. stinky poopy diapers) in the room, although we'll need to get a diaper pail. But nothing stinks up Santi's room more than his Diaper Genie, even after bleaching it it still smells after awhile.
6. Being fiscally and environmentally responsible

Disposable Cons:
1. Diapers in a landfill = not good
2. Cost - we pay about $17 a pack for regular diapers and $20 a pack for overnights right now about once a month. When the baby is little it's almost twice a month because they use so many more
3. Smelly diapers in the Diaper Genie

Disposable Pros:
1. Ease of use and you can get them anywhere - we travel a lot, so we'd probably still use disposables for the travel portion of our trips, and then switch to cloth if we have access to clean them (like if we're staying with family and can do laundry while visiting.)
2. Ease of disposal - toss them into a little bag and then into the trash...no need to carry a stinky, poopy diaper with you in the diaper bag when you're out and about.

So I think we're going to bite the bullet and buy some and see how it goes. Once we find out what we're having for a baby (next Tuesday!) it will make it easier to buy the diapers since some of the colors are truly more "girly" than others, and I don't want to put a little boy in a lavender diaper! I think, just like anything with parenthood, once we get used to it, we will be wondering why we hadn't used them with Santi all along.  We'll be sticking with disposable for Santi though as my hope is to have him potty trained by the time he's 2. (More on this later, but this photo should illustrate what we've just started here in our household):






So what about you? Do you cloth diaper or not? What are your reasons for going one way or another? Have you switched with one child to the next?

19 week update

I can't believe I'm at 19 weeks! Halfway through this pregnancy (I am 99% sure I won't go to term since I was 3 weeks early with Santi, and we'll schedule a c-section with this one as well.)

How Far Along: 19 weeks (147 more days to go!)

What "They" Say About Our Baby's Development: Your baby's sensory development is exploding! Its brain is designating specialized areas for smell, taste, hearing, vision, and touch. Some research suggests that it may be able to hear your voice now, so don't be shy about reading aloud, talking to it, or singing a happy tune if the mood strikes you. Your baby weighs about 8 1/2 ounces and measures 6 inches, head to bottom. Its arms and legs are in the right proportions to each other and the rest of its body now. Its kidneys continue to make urine and the hair on its scalp is sprouting. A waxy protective coating called the vernix caseosa is forming on its skin to prevent it from pickling in the amniotic fluid.



Weekly Food Comparison: An heirloom tomato...
The Good: The baby is kicking a lot, and I can feel it from the inside and the outside.
The Bad: Getting winded easily.


The Weird: Nothing too strange.

Currently Craving/Avoiding:

Avoiding: Not much!
Craving: Sugar, sugar and more sugar!

Doctor Updates:
I have an appointment on Tuesday to find out if a little girl or a little boy will be joining our family. I'm thinking it's a girl still and Tito has been wavering back and forth but is now back to boy. I'm hoping I'm right, although I'm obviously happy with a boy as well. But having one of each would be nice too!


The Weekly Belly Bump: Here's the 19 week belly!

This is me last week in NC - hence the sunshine, bathing suit and smile on my face!

September 15, 2011

Welcome to our house!

So we're moved in and basically done. There are few things that are needed, and oh, the baby's room doesn't have anything other than random baby swings, rocker, and jumperoo, and some boxes in the closet. We won't be buying furniture until we know what we're having.

But come on in - here's the tour!



As you enter, to your right is the half bathroom. We didn't paint it this color, but for now we're keeping it. There's crown molding on the ceiling which is nice. I'd like to do a frame around the mirror, and we need to replace the seal on the toilet because they tried to take it with them and broke the seal. Der. Eventually, we'll also get rid of the linoleum, and replace it with tile.



The dining area. The entryway is to the right. The closet is a coat closet and we'll eventually get curtains. :) We'll also eventually get a new table and chairs...we're thinking rectangle with seating for at least 6 with maybe a leaf for extending to 8.



Living area - yes, curtains will be put in soon!



The kitchen - I love it. We'll eventually replace the linoleum with tile and hardwoods in the living area. And we'll also get a dishwasher that matches the stove and fridge. But for right now, two out of three isn't bad, right? :) And we need new barstools since those ones are too tall for the island.



Other side of the kitchen looking towards the pantry.



Pantry with our mini family command center.



Heading upstairs with our photo collage.



Top of the stairs is our office area.



Other side of the loft is the play area. We're going to get a little table and chairs to put up here eventually.



Looking back into the loft from the baby's room. On the left is our laundry closet.



The baby's room right now - needs paint, and furniture obviously.



Baby's room looking into the closet - just some random boxes in here right now.



Kid's bathroom. Yes, we need a shower curtain rod. And note the potty insert - we've started potty training as of yesterday! :)



Santi's room







Our room - needs curtains, needs some art.



Looking into the bathroom



Master Bathroom



Master closet - Tito's end



Master closet - my area



The other end of the closet which I'll be getting a built in desk for.



Back in our room - need some art over the bed and some curtains, cause in the right hand window, hello! That's the neighbors!  :)

So aside from the front yard, back yard and garage (which still need some shelving and a little organization), that's our house! We'll hopefully be doing some landscaping in the back yard and putting in a garden in the spring. And we'll be pulling out a dead plant (what I think was a rhododendron bush but has been cut down and there's just a stump) in the front and hopefully putting in something nice there in the spring too. And we're working on getting the grass from being more brown to being more green. And of course we'll get some patio furniture...right now all we have are two lawn chairs.

Thanks for stopping by!

August 30, 2011

Starting Over

So they say that your second child doesn't get as much attention as your first. While I was determined to not have this happen, it already is. Maybe because I've been so nauseous and sick for the first trimester? Maybe because I'm busy when I'm not sick moving and chasing a very active 17 month old around? Maybe because I'm lazy? Maybe all of the above?

But I'm determined from this point on to be better with updates on this baby, updates on the house, and updates on our lives.

We have officially moved out of our apartment to our house. All of the boxes are unpacked and the only things left to do are little things. Like hang some photos and shelves. And the baby's room. But we've decided to not deal with the baby's room until we know what we're having - no sense in buying furniture and painting until we know what we're having. And we have another month until we find out - the date for the gender ultrasound is September 20th!

This pregnancy is SO different from Santi's. From the things I'm eating, to how I'm carrying.  I'm 18 weeks now and still in regular clothes. I have three pairs of size 6 shorts I'm wearing and can still button and are comfortable. And one pair of capri pants that are a size 5/6 that I wear, and two pairs of jeans. I can button those jeans but they're more comfortable unbuttoned so I zip them up and button them with an elastic band. And all of my tops are non-maternity tops. I'm SWIMMING in maternity clothes. I have one XS maternity top and it's SO big on me. And all of the rest of the stuff is way too big. While the pants are comfy, they are too big and when I've put them on I spend 99% of my day hiking them up. So I've avoided buying any maternity clothes to this point.

With Santi, I was in maternity clothes at 11 weeks. And I gained weight in the first trimester (about 5lbs) and it went to my legs/hips and my arms. With this pregnancy, I've lost 11lbs, and now that I'm in the 2nd trimester, I'm STILL maintaining that weight. I told my OB I was concerned and asked if I should be drinking weight gain shakes and he said no. He said his only concern was me gaining too much weight (which for my frame I'm only supposed to gain 30lbs at the most.) 

So he told me to indulge, and I'm taking his advice and enjoying some milkshakes, and ice cream, more than I normally would. But I'm still exercising. If I'm not going to Stroller Strides, I'm going for walks with Santi (we did 4.5 miles the other day.) But we have a new neighborhood to explore, so we go walking a lot. And I've also been doing a lot of yard work. So I think this is all contributing. And I am hoping that I gain weight but that the slow gain helps me lose it after this baby arrives.

And my goal is to run a half marathon next June after this baby arrives. Tito asked me "why?" which, to tell you the truth, I would have asked myself a year ago. But the truth is, I want to do it so I can say I did it. It's a personal goal I've had in my head since joining Stroller Strides after Santi was born and the Running Club and training for two 10k's. And while training for the 10k, I said to myself - "If I can run 6.2 miles, why can't I run 13?" So that's my goal. And I'm hoping I can do it. Timeline will be tight as I won't be able to start training for it until the end of February or early March depending on when the baby arrives. So that's three months to train, but I'm hoping my body will remember running by that point and not be too upset with me.

As of now, here are where things stand with Baby D #2:

How Far Along: 18 weeks (154 more days to go!)

What "They" Say About Our Baby's Development: Head to rump, your baby is about 5 1/2 inches long and it weighs almost 7 ounces. It's busy flexing its arms and legs — movements that you'll start noticing more and more in the weeks ahead. Its blood vessels are visible through its thin skin, and its ears are now in their final position, although they're still standing out from its head a bit. A protective covering of myelin is beginning to form around its nerves, a process that will continue for a year after it's born. If you're having a girl, her uterus and fallopian tubes are formed and in place. If you're having a boy, his genitals are noticeable now, but he may hide them from you during an ultrasound.



Weekly Food Comparison: A bell pepper
The Good: Feeling the baby move occasionally. I still am not used to this feeling. Maybe because I know that there is a little person inside and I'm kind of anxious to get to the point of meeting that person? I'll let them stay in there and cook a little longer though!
The Bad: Headaches


The Weird: Random hiccups

Currently Craving/Avoiding:

Avoiding: Not much...

Craving: Sugary foods, carbs
 

Doctor Updates: Nothing this week. One month until our BIG ultrasound!


The Weekly Belly Bump: I need a different photo but this is the latest I've taken - this was at 16 weeks, although I'm not really looking any bigger at 18 weeks now!


August 3, 2011

In Defense of Teachers

When I first went to college I wanted to be a teacher. I would have been 4th generation on my dad's side of the family and 5th generation on my mom's side. Plus I have 4 aunts who are teachers, and a cousin who just graduated with a degree in education, and my older brother who will probably eventually teach.

The #1 reason I decided NOT to be a teacher, honestly, was the money. Followed closely by a horrible experience substituting for 7th graders where I realized there was no way I wanted to spend every week day watching other people's kids. I didn't have the patience to teach them things they didn't know. It's harder when it's other people's kids than your own!

However, my life was shaped by many great teachers, first and foremost, my parents who were both public school teachers. They were the people who, despite me not wanting to learn anything on family vacations, or in everyday lessons, taught me. And then my favorite teachers growing up: Miss Coughlin (for the 4th grade), Mrs. Cailler (7th grade English), Dr. Lyombe Eko at UMaine and Dr. Paul Grossweiler at UMaine (two Communications professors who shaped what would be my career after graduation.) Thank you Matt Damon for putting this out there...

http://www.newser.com/story/124954/matt-damon-defends-teachers-wins-internet-love-video.html

July 22, 2011

Yay!

We now have the most expensive keys we've ever owned in our possession! 


I'm headed over this afternoon to clean (they didn't leave it in the greatest condition) and measure. This weekend we're shampooing the carpets and picking out paint, appliances (new fridge and washer and dryer!), towel rods, shower curtain rod for the kid's bathroom, wall mounted baby gate for the top of the stairs (Santi's favorite thing to do now is climb the stairs - we'll have to teach him quickly how to slide down safely, as he already fell down one step to the landing on his nose (only one step, no crying, just shock from him!)

July 18, 2011

Weekly Update - Week 11

Before I get into week 12, better get this week's update out of the way!



How Far Along: 11 weeks


What "They" Say About Our Baby's Development: Your baby is now almost fully formed. Its hands will soon open and close into fists, tiny tooth buds are beginning to appear under its gums, and some of its bones are beginning to harden. It's already busy kicking and stretching, and its tiny movements are so effortless they look like water ballet. These movements will become more frequent as its body grows and becomes more developed and functional. You won't feel your baby's acrobatics for another month or two — nor will you notice the hiccupping that may be happening now that its diaphragm is forming.

Weekly Food Comparison: A fig.


The Good: Having some more energy in the mornings, but that usually goes downhill in the afternoons. On most weekends, I will nap, since Tito is around to watch Santi.

The Bad: Headaches and nausea. This past weekend I could barely get out of bed on Saturday.


The Weird: Nada this week.


Currently Craving/Avoiding:
Avoiding: Strawberries are making me feel more nauseous, so I stay away from eating them.Craving: Pizza, carbs, sweets, ice cream


The Weekly Belly Bump: About the same. Finally a photo!



Weekly Update - Week 10

This is a little late! Going to do two updates right in a row!


How Far Along: 10 weeks

What "They" Say About Our Baby's Development: "Though it's barely the size of a kumquat — a little over an inch or so long, crown to bottom — and weighs less than a quarter of an ounce, your baby has now completed the most critical portion of its development. This is the beginning of the so-called fetal period, a time when the tissues and organs in its body rapidly grow and mature. It's swallowing fluid and kicking up a storm. Vital organs — including kidneys, intestines, brain, and liver (now making red blood cells in place of the disappearing yolk sac) — are in place and starting to function, though they'll continue to develop throughout your pregnancy. If you could take a peek inside your womb, you'd spot minute details, like tiny nails forming on fingers and toes (no more webbing) and peach-fuzz hair beginning to grow on tender skin. In other developments: Your baby's limbs can bend now. Its hands are flexed at the wrist and meet over its heart, and its feet may be long enough to meet in front of its body. The outline of its spine is clearly visible through translucent skin, and spinal nerves are beginning to stretch out from its spinal cord. Your baby's forehead temporarily bulges with its developing brain and sits very high on its head, which measures half the length of his body. From crown to rump, it's about 1 1/4 inches long. In the coming weeks, your baby will again double in size — to nearly 3 inches.

Weekly Food Comparison: A kumquat.
The Good: Feeling better in the morning. But only in the mornings!
The Bad: The nausea...it's so bad, on weekends I have a really hard time getting out of bed. I also can smell like a super hero, and it's usually all the bad things that I can smell!

The Weird: Crying at the drop of a hat. Or at commercials. Or at things I've seen before. Yesterday I cried over the last 15 minutes of the Sex and the City movie.


Currently Craving/Avoiding:


Avoiding: Not much.
Craving: Sweets, sweets and more sweets!

The Weekly Belly Bump: It's at the stage where in the morning it's small and in the evening it looks like I'm 5 months along.

July 14, 2011

The power of the Internet and Facebook

The Internet is full of a lot of stuff. A lot of things that aren't useful. And some things that are. And because of those few useful things, sometimes things can happen that are truly amazing. Like a 4 year old boys life being saved by having Kawasaki Disease diagnosed via Facebook...


http://www.zdnet.com/blog/facebook/facebook-helps-diagnose-kawasaki-disease-saving-4-year-old-boy-8217s-life/2200

Facebook helps diagnose Kawasaki disease, saving 4-year-old boy’s life

By Emil Protalinski | July 14, 2011, 12:35pm PDT

On Mother’s Day morning, Deborah Copaken Kogan’s 4-year-old son Leo woke up with a rash. Since a recent note from Leo’s day care reported a case of strep in his classroom, Deborah felt his forehead, noted it was hot, and took him for a strep test. That’s how a long saga involving Facebook unfolded, as told in full on Slate.

While waiting for the test, she snapped a photo of her son on the examination table and posted it to Facebook with the following caption: “Nothing says Happy Mother’s Day quite like a Sunday morning at the pediatrician’s.” The test came back negative, but the doctor decided to treat Leo for strep while waiting for his throat culture results. Back on Facebook, many friends commented on the photo asking what was wrong. Deborah wrote “Strep, no biggie.” She then filled the prescription at the nearest pharmacy and fed Leo his first dose.

The next morning, Leo was worse. The family doctor concluded it was scarlet fever (a fancy name for strep with a rash), also pending the results of the throat culture. Deborah posted another photo on Facebook with the following less cheeky caption: “Baby getting sicker. Eyes swollen shut. Fever rising. Penicillin not working. Might be scarlet fever. Or roseola. Or…???? Sigh.”

Within three hours, 20 concerned comments had appeared underneath the photo. The next morning, Leo’s face was swollen beyond recognition. Deborah took a dozen photos of Leo from various angles to send to the family doctor via MMS, and posted the least frightening ones on Facebook. “Swelling worse,” she wrote, “especially eyes and chin. Fever still crazy high. Poor baby.”

Ten minutes later, Deborah received a call from her Facebook friend Stephanie, a film actress and former neighbor. “I hope you’ll excuse me for butting in but you have to get to the hospital,” she said. “Now. The longer you wait, the worse the damage.” Her son Max had had the exact same symptoms, and was hospitalized for Kawasaki disease. Deborah looked it up online and found it was a rare and sometimes fatal auto-immune disorder that attacks the coronary arteries surrounding the heart. Many of Leo’s symptoms seemed to match the descriptions, though there were also similar ones to the flu and scarlet fever.

Then Leo’s strep test came back negative. The most recent Facebook photo had garnered 36 comments, with various diagnoses and words of support, and Deborah’s inbox had multiple private messages. One was from her friend Beth, a pediatrician, and it echoed Stephanie’s fears. Deborah’s cousin Emily, a pediatric cardiologist who often has to deal with the fallout from untreated Kawasaki, also called after seeing the photo, urging her to go to the hospital. “The damage begins as early as five days after the onset of symptoms,” she said.

Three Facebook friends were enough for Deborah to take Leo to the hospital. From the hallway in triage, she finally called her family doctor and filled him in. “You know what? I was actually just thinking it could be Kawasaki disease,” he said. “Makes total sense. Bravo, Facebook.”

Over the next three weeks, Leo was treated, released, retreated, and rereleased for Kawasaki disease and then the Kawasaki-triggered liver disease. After helping diagnose Leo, Facebook then played the role of keeping family and friends in the loop about his condition. Deborah explained the social network helped her “to feel connected—profoundly connected—to the human race while living, breathing, eating and sleeping in the isolating, fluorescent-lit bubble of a children’s hospital ward, where any potential humans I might have ‘friended’ on our floor were too distraught over the fates of their own children to make any room in their hearts for strangers.”

Two months later, Leo’s liver is slowly recovering. While his enlarged heart is doing well, he will have to endure echocardiograms every year for the rest of his life.

June 29, 2011

Some favorite things!

Just wanted to share some of my favorite things!

1.
Switched at Birth on ABC Family. I caught this show one night and got hooked! I DVR it and think it's so great. Such a good show and Marlee Matlin is a producer, and I love how they are really portraying the deaf character and how she's able to function normally in a hearing world (as opposed to other movies I've seen where they make it seem like such a burden to not be able to hear.) And that Constance Marie (who plays Daphne's mom) really uses sign language...just a neat idea and a great show.

2.
The Glee Project on Oxygen. Is anyone else watching this show? I love the idea (winner gets a 7 week stint on Glee!) and love the kids. Although some annoy me - the Latina girl who dubs herself as "flirty" is annoying. And the know it all girl who said she doesn't feel like it's a competition has an amazing voice but seriously I want to smack her all.the.time. The only issue I have with the show is that all of these kids seem to be in characters that are exactly like the current Glee cast. So I don't know how the winner would be put into the show as a "new" and fresh character, but I'm liking watching it so far!

3. Grilling! We've busted out our grill for the first time this season! We could have used it before then but we were lazy and I refused to clean it and Tito just put it off. But we had friends over for a barbecue on Sunday so we had to clean it off and use it! I grilled chicken last night (with lemon pepper seasoning - yum!) and Santi and Tito gobbled it up. Tonight we're having turkey burgers and veggies...and it used to be Tito's job to grill but ever since he burned the crap out of the burgers on Sunday, he's forbidden. So I will be making non-charred food tonight!

4. Naps! Santi is now taking 3-4 hour naps once a day consistently. Usually he'll go down after we get back from Stroller Strides in the morning (about 11am) and sleep until at least 2 and then have lunch and then we'll run errands or play or go to the park. Sometimes when we don't go to Stroller Strides, he'll go down at about 10am and sleep for a few hours and on days like yesterday when he was really cranky, I was able to put him down at 3pm and have him rest (he didn't sleep but just hung out in his crib playing with his puppies and his lovie) for about an hour or so. It's allowing me to get a lot done (such as starting packing for the move!) Or occasionally if I'm really tired, I'll take a nap too! :)

June 27, 2011

News!

So the biggest news is....

I'm pregnant!

#2 is due February 2, 2012! We thought we were 7 weeks along but the ultrasound and measurements last week bumped me up a week, so I'm now 8 weeks and 3 days along. We were trying, but didn't think it would happen as quickly as it did, so that was the surprise. We found out when we were back visiting family in Boston.

Here's a little video of our bean:





And to start the updates with this pregnancy, I'm going to go with 9 weeks:

How Far Along: 9 weeks


What "They" Say About Our Baby's Development: "You can’t feel it yet, but those newly formed arms and legs might just very well start your baby moving during this week. Almost a full inch long and about 1/8 an ounce, your baby is looking every day more and more like a little person. This is helped by the shrinking of the embryonic tail we all start with at the base of the spinal cord. The growth of your baby's head, now almost half the size of his or her body, has been impressive in this time, though babies keep them tucked down close to the chest. This week also sees the beginning of nipples and hair follicles. Internally, reproductive organs, either testes or ovaries, are forming as do other internal organs including the pancreas, bile ducts, gallbladder and anus."

Weekly Food Comparison: A Grape

The Good: My injections aren't as hard to take this time around, although I'm definitely looking forward to stopping them after the pregnancy.

The Bad: Nausea. I feel horrible. Which makes it hard to do anything, but especially take care of Santi. I live for when he naps so I can nap. I haven't thrown up much, but just the general nausea all day is enough to take me out.

The Weird: I'm nauseous all the time and hungry all the time. In fact, the only time I'm not nauseous is when I'm eating!

Currently Avoiding: I haven't had any real food aversions this time around. My aversions are to fabrics. Such as I have a pair of sweat pants I was wearing the other night with a drawstring waist I'd long ago knotted. I wanted to untie it but the fabric in my fingers made me nauseous and I eventually threw up!

Craving: Sweets. I never craved sweets with Santi and it's like I can't get enough of them this time!

The Weekly Belly Bump: It's there. I have to take a photo and upload. I feel like I'm bigger than I was at this time with Santi but smaller in a way if that makes sense. I've been working out consistently for the past year, and running too, and I think that's allowing me to fit into non-maternity clothes for longer than last time.

June 15, 2011

Finally!

So I can officially announce this on here - we're in escrow on a house! We're so excited! Our closing date is July 22nd, and we'll take some time to paint and do some minor cosmetic repairs before moving over officially.

Let's take a tour!



Kitchen area - this photo is from the staged house. They have since put in a black dishwasher (too short) and a white range/microwave and stove, and there is no fridge.) To the left of the fridge is the pantry which extends back underneath the stairs.

View from the kitchen into the great room. This room gets TONS of light. We will not be putting our dining area there, and would actually move it farther to the right, where that chaise is and have our livingroom area on the left side.

Another view of the great room area

Back yard...we need to buy a mower!


Another view of the back yard where you can see the trampoline set INTO the ground and a little of the patio area. We'll be getting rid of this...too much of a hazard with a toddler!

Master bedroom (staged, obviously). This room gets tons of light too. And we don't have that ceiling fan.


Master bathroom. To the left is the HUGE master closet. It's the length from about the middle of the first sink you see back to the back wall and is about as wide as from the doorway on the left to the tub area. The back door on the right is the toilet room. The bad is that this room has carpeting but we'll eventually rip it out and put finishers down for the bedroom door and the closet door to keep carpet in there, and put tile down in this bathroom.


Bath tub. It's calling my name. And since this room is on the back of the house, it gets TONS of light.

Bonus area at the top of the stairs. They repainted it a nice green, which we'll be keeping, before we saw it. We'll use this as an office space with our "L" shaped desk in the left corner, and Santi's play area on the right. Just to the left at the front of the photo is the laundry area. And there's one bedroom with a walk in closet to the left of this area, another bedroom with another walk in closet behind where you're standing in this photo and another bathroom (kids bathroom) off this area too. And the master is off this area as well.



What will be Santi's room - over looks the street and is over the garage. We're planning on doing the airplane theme that we have in his existing room, but we'll be able to paint here! :) Not sure what color to paint the walls but since his colors in his room are light green, light blue, tan and chocolate brown, we'll find some combo of that. Probably lead more towards the tan though since it'll be more neutral.


Santi's walk in closet - since he won't be needing all of that space for clothes, I'm planning on creating a little reading nook/fort/play area in there for him on the floor along with using it to store his clothes.


Laundry area (upstairs!) and part of the bonus area. We like this color and are keeping it. We'll be adding a couple of shelves in the laundry area.


Second room. It used to be blue and then they painted a pinkish color on it (but you can still see the blue.) So we'll be repainting this, although we're not sure what color.


Kid's bathroom. We'll eventually replace the counter tops (or put in a whole new vanity with a vessel sink?)  and the flooring, but for now it'll do. We have to buy a shower curtain rod since they took that too!


Our room...Tito and I keep saying we love being adults and moving into a new house because we automatically get the biggest and best room! :) We'll paint in here as well, although we're not sure what color yet.


Our bathroom - like mentioned before, we'll eventually rip out the carpet here and tile, and then we'll replace the counters and maybe the sinks (the one on the left has a rust stain around the stopper that I need to work some magic on, but otherwise, we'll replace them. We love the vanities though - so much storage space!


Looking left into the master closet - we'll eventually do some built ins in here


In the closet - built ins will happen on the left wall and I want to build in a desk area on the back wall and use the area behind the door for shelving to house my craft stuff, and turn part of this "room" into my craft room. That way it'll be out of the public view, and I can work on something and shut the door to keep things from getting touched by little hands!


Our shower


View down the stairs - we'll eventually put hardwoods on the lower level


Garage! And our realtor and inspector! :) We'll paint this white or beige - we hate the look of bare sheetrock! We'll also probably paint the floor since they seem to have used it for some random spray painting and painted shapes on the floor (you can see one near our realtor's feet!)  We'll also install shelving on the back wall and want to get some hanging storage so we can put things like luggage, etc up and out of reach.

We have a few repairs to do (it was a foreclosure so they took all of the shelving in the pantry, all of the forced air grates in the floors, and all of the outlet covers in the kitchen, as well as the towel bars and toilet paper holders in the bathrooms and the front door handle.) So we've got to replace all of that stuff and we'll be painting our bedroom and bathroom, the kid's bathroom, guest bedroom and Santi's room. We like all of the colors in the bonus area and in the downstairs, aside from the blood red 1/2 bath on the first floor, so we'll repaint that too.

There's also great crown molding in parts of the house which we're excited about. We can't wait to move in and spread out - I am going from having all of my kitchen/dining room stuff shoved into 11 cabinets and a sideboard to 26 cabinets and a pantry! I'm so excited!

I'll be posting more home photos as we get closer and move in! And then there's all of the personalizing and making it "ours!"